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From Foster Child to Foster Parent- Fawn's Story
October 28, 2016 | By Together We Rise- Kimberly Plum

Fawn grew up in and out of foster homes as a child. Eventually placed in kinship care, she persevered through her life and became a foster parent with her husband. Here is her advice for children in foster care:

"My mom had six children with six different dads. Two of the kids went up for adoption as soon as they were born and my older brother was out of the house before I had any real first memory. My mom struggled with drug and alcohol addiction. As we got older, the worse it seemed to get. I remember my mom buying a rack of beer, 24 cans, and drinking them all as soon as we got home, every night. In first grade, I was 6, my mom started forgetting us at day care every Friday. The day care would call CPS and a police officer would come and get up and take us to DSHS. We would return home Monday. This happened for years. During the summer we would be taken and spend all summer in foster care, and in the fall we'd be back with our mom where she would drink all week and we would be left to make our own meals and put ourselves to bed and bathe and do laundry.

Eventually I got lucky, we were placed with my maternal grandparents and did not have to spend the rest of my childhood in and out of foster home. I didn’t know my grandparents and being up rooted from the only normal I knew was still very strange and very difficult. My mom died when I was 16 from an overdose. I worked hard in school and I had many mentors and teachers to help me along my way. Though I lived with my grandparents I was still a foster kid and I was still in foster care, that was a huge struggle among trying to be normal with friends and not wanting people to know.

I graduated high school and I received many scholarships, one being The Governor’s Scholarship for foster children in Washington State. I am now married with a wonderful supportive husband and we are raising our own little boy. We are also foster parents and we have opened our doors in hopes that we can help foster children have a normal, steady, and loving home to live. My advice to children in care now would be to love yourself, know it’s not your fault, at all. Find a foster parent, friend, teacher, or someone else you can use as a mentor and build a relationship with. Do not ever give up and do not ever allow anyone make you feel powerless." - Fawn


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